When your mane's a mess, does it seem like nothing goes your way? Don't worry – it's not just you.
How does a bad hair day really affects us.
Whether you’re fighting with frizzy out of control hair,
trying to pump up the volume on limp
locks, or just plain doing battle with the weather, having a hair meltdown may
affect more than just your appearance. “Bad hair” can have profound effects on
your mental well-being, causing both women and men to lose self-esteem, become
more socially insecure, and even doubt their own abilities. This was found by researchers at Yale University found in one of
their studies.
The study, commissioned by Proctor and Gamble (makes sense),
found that people may actually perform below their abilities when they believe
their hair is not up to snuff. The researchers reported that even the thought
of a bad hair day made women and men believe they weren’t as smart as others.
Socially, women reported feeling embarrassed, ashamed, and self-conscious
during bad hair days while men said they felt more nervous and less
self-confident.
“There is a strong correlation between what we see in the
mirror and how we feel about ourselves,” says Amy L. Flowers, PhD, a
psychologist with expertise in self-esteem and body image and with a practice
in Macon, Ga. “Thomas Cash, a famous researcher in body image, states that up
to 25 percent of our self-esteem is determined by how we feel about our bodies
— you can’t hate the way you look and still love yourself,” Flowers says. “Also,
we assume that others see us the way we see ourselves, so if we don’t like a
particular feature (like our hair), we assume that others find it repulsive,
too.” But, of course, that’s not always the case.
But 44 percent of respondents said their mood has been
negatively affected by a bad hair day, and 26 percent said they actually were
moved to tears after a botched haircut. The reaction is understandable, says
Flowers. “We put importance on our hair and face because these are features
that cannot be hidden; they are the first things we notice about people.” U.S.
Secretary of State Hillary Rodham Clinton can attest to the power of hair. She
once famously quipped, “If I want to knock a story off the front page, I just
change my hairstyle.”
To avoid a bad hair day, women are ready to dip pretty deep
into their pockets. The ShopSmart poll found that, on average, women pay $50 to
$ 90. for a haircut. Also 73 percent of women reported regularly coloring their
hair with women paying an average $65 to $150. for color.
“I think women will spend their last money on haircuts and hair color because these are not
seen as luxuries but ‘impression-formation devices,’ especially on job
interviews, first dates, etc.,” Flowers says.
What Good Hair Care Says About You
“I think hair can say
a lot about how we see ourselves — if it looks like you just fell out of bed,
it implies that you don’t care about your appearance, which to me indicates
poor self-esteem,” says Flowers. “I don’t think you have to have on a full face
of makeup before going out to get the mail, but a person who is going out in
public should be clean and tidy. It shows self-respect and makes a good
impression.” And she urges people to "remember that old expression: You
only have one chance to make a first impression.”
So with this in mind, a good and
experienced professional stylist is worth their weight in gold.
TELL US here at Claude Thomas Salon and Spa blogg: Does a bad hair day dampen your emotional health?
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